The Position and Participation of Khadijah in Developing Da'wah in Islam at the First Period

Khadijah before becoming the wife of the Prophet had been married twice. Besides that, Khadijah was a woman who was good at business and her views were quite broad in matters of trade. Khadijah was also one of the most famous journalists of the time. Khadijah was also a wealthy widow, despite being 40 years old, apparently beautiful. Indeed, Khadijah was good at caring for herself so she looked young. Besides that, Khadijah was a woman of choice, because of her nobility, her descendants, her beauty and her reporters. Khadijah was one of those who was openminded, intelligent, and high in her ideals. Because of her nature so plastered Khadijah as a

The loss of love for his mother seems to have been found again after marrying Khadijah. Kahdijah besides acting as a housewife, also as a wife during her life. 6 From the above quotation it is clear that, Khadijah as the first wife of the Prophet Muhammad, and Khadijah had been able to give true love to her husband while she was still alive. This is the main capital needed by a warrior. This is also the greatest policy to lead to further success, because according to custom occurs, will succeed in a job with the agreement between husband and wife who mutually support each other.
In the success of the da'wah, Prophet Muhammad played a huge role in understanding Khadijah to foster a happy home. Thus, the Prophet Muhammad could avoid the failure of da'wah, as some of the earlier Prophet, such as Prophet David, Noah, and Ayyub. 7 Mursal. M. Taher has described the position of Khadijah as follows: Khadijah was the wife of the Prophet Muhammad during her life. The Prophet Muhammad never married another woman while Khadijah was still alive. Khadijah lived with Prophet Muhammad with compassion and served Prophet Muhammad without any shortcomings. For approximately 25 years Khadijah lived with the Prophet Muhammad, Khadijah was a wise wife who could reassure her husband's heart. Prophet Muhammad loved Khadijah with all his heart. After Khadijah died, the Prophet Muhammad still remembered her. It is not surprising that after Khadija's death, the Prophet Muhammad always mentioned her name to the point of cutting off the goat and the meat was delivered to the house of Khadija's friends. 8 Prophet Muhammad's attention to Khadijah was also quite large, this was seen at the time of Khadija's death at the age of 65 years. The Prophet Muhammad himself organized the fardu of the body of Khadijah, until it was buried in the Shi'i Hayun Makkah. 9 How great is Khadijah's service to Islam and the Muslims while Khadijah was still alive. Khadijah's personality can be a role model for mothers now and in the future.
And the Quraysh in particular, they worship idols as worship, moral decadence is very concerning. Victory at the elbow, the weak are always their slaves, the saddest of the least dignity of women, the daughters are killed alive. They live in the condemnation of sin. Liquor, wine and women playing are their jobs. 10 It is in this picture and situation that the Messenger of Allah was decreed by Allah to bring guidance and mercy to the universal universe, according to his firm which means: "we have not sent you, O Muhammad, except to be a mercy of all the worlds." At first the Prophet Muhammad preached to spread the religion of Islam quietly, confined to people who were trusted. It is important to avoid things that are not desired, because this has become a world custom, every new one will be rejected by humans, especially what Muhammad wants to change is the belief of humans from polytheism to Muslims who believe in Allah .
People who first converted to Islam or who initially believed in the religion of Islam are called "As Shabiqul Awwalun", the first person to justify the Prophet. The people who 6 Ali Akbar, Khadijah Umul Mukminin, (Jakarta: Wahyu, 1975 Especially for Khadijah as the first woman to believe in Messenger of Allah, and the first time she uttered two syahadah, this got a special place in the Prophet. Khadijah besides the first, also she who has been able to make the Prophet happy by giving birth to six children. Mursal H.M Toher said: Khadijah bint Khuwailid had financed the Prophet in her struggle with her body and soul to win the monotheism of monotheism. Khadijah was the backbone of Islam, she has accompanied the Prophet throughout her life. 11 Based on the description above, the author can conclude that the woman who initially confirmed the Messenger of Allah on the woman's side was Khadijah, and also on the men's side was the first time Abu Bakar Shiddiq. Next Khadijah deserves to be called the backbone of Islam, and she has accompanied Rasulullah throughout her life.

b. As a Housewife
Khadijah is an example for all Muslims, especially for Muslims in fostering happy households. All Khadija's deeds and behavior will be a good role model for all mothers.
Khadijah before becoming the wife of the Messenger of Allah, among her people and family was known as a saint who was intelligent and well-mannered. Khadijah was a housewife who should be praised and emulated by the example of the Muslim community from the past until now, both in taking care of the household and in serving her husband. "In the hands of the mother lies the happiness of the household and the peace of the husband. 12 Khadijah was also a wise, patient and steadfast person in the face of events that occur because of that Khadijah's household became peaceful conflict between husband and wife. To find a peace in a household to be happy and peaceful, mothers should be able to serve their husband and children as well as possible. Mothers and fathers must provide guidance to their children in the household in order to achieve happiness that is harmonious, calm, safe and not restless for their children, and families. This is Ayesha Dachlan Said: Mother Father who lives peacefully, faithfully and harmoniously must make their children calm, not nervous, instead making their children happy. Peace and tranquility born and inner must be able to be created in the family by caressing the love of the mother and father. 13 Nawawi Rambe also explained that: Khadijah is a housewife who can serve her husband and children both in difficult circumstances, Khadijah in the household is always respectful to her husband, children and the community. Khadijah was no less in love and respect for her husband. 14 Khadijah married households with the Messenger of Allah increasingly sinking into happiness. Besides housewife, she able to serve her husbands, children because she was more knowledgeable in being able to take care of all problems both in the household and in the community. 15 11  Therefore, Khadijah sincerely gave her property to her husband because Khadijah understood that a good household builder would not use the property as she wished, she was sure that her husband would not spend her wealth on something useless.
From the description above, the authors can explain that the role of Khadijah as a housewife in the family is more emphasis on efforts to foster and realize a happy family. Following this Khadijah acts as a mother who acts as a mother giving birth to children as the next generation who then care for and nurture and protect the family.

c. As an Educators of Her Children
Khadijah was an educator for her children because she was a woman and the head of the household when the Prophet left to spread Islam. The household was the first environment for children to get education especially from their parents. Personal progress and development of children was very dependent on family life because the family was an educational environment that is the base or basis of life in the future. 16 The first education in coaching children is their mother. If the mother gives experience to a good child, their child will be fine, and vice versa. Education is very important in the family of the good and bad of a child depends on education in the household.
Khadijah was as an educator mother in her own family and among the people of her time. Khadijah aside from acting as a housewife as well as a teacher (educator) in pedaling a household ark. 17 From the description above it is clear that Khadijah aside from her role as a housewife and also as an educator mother of her children. In educating Khadija, she never shows cruelty to her children and always gives love to her children. Khadijah's love for her children was famous throughout her life. She did not commit cruelty or violence to them. So here can take a good role model Siti Khadijah, how to educate her children. In educating these children must be wise.
Khadijah in caring for and educating her children was full of love and she was in a state of illness. In this case Nawawi Rambe said: Khadijah caring for and educating her children is full of affection that can be given by a mother, she always pays attention to all of her children's needs. If her children is sick she never leaves her guarded day and night. 18 Khadijah was very harmonious and peaceful and happy in the household because she was steadfast in carrying out her duties as a mother. Education in the Khadijah period was not the same as education now because education today is completely modern, but education in the Khadijah period only focused on how to read the Qur'an and Arabic sya'irs, and introduce to their children about that is halal and haram.
Ahmad Syalaby said: Khadijah said to her son that I have appointed you to be her educator therefore you should obey Allah and do whatever is entrusted to you the first time I will testify to you so that you train him with the Book and then narrate to him the best poetry and bring it to the Arabian villages to take the poetry of those who are good, they should know some of the halal and haram. 19 In this case for an educator should be able to set a good role model in the mother Khadijah, especially for women in educating their children in the household.
possessions, because they obtained the proceeds of her own efforts. Even parents' inheritance.
Khadijah's wealth has been delegated to the capital of the struggle of the Prophet in upholding the sentence monotheism. Under no circumstances does Khadijah always support and give her wealth to the struggle of the Prophet, even though there are obstacles. In connection with this Aboe Bakar Atjeh explained, Khadijah was the only faithful wife who helped the struggle of the Prophet born and inner. All her property was sacrificed to do good for the teachings of Muhammad, defending her husband's honor from the humiliation carried out by the nobles of Quraysh. 29 From the description above it is clear that Khadijah was a very wealthy woman and a journalist and philanthropist. Khadijah always provides support and encouragement for her husband's interests in carrying out Islamic da'wah. Khadijah also provided capital in the struggle of the Prophet to achieve the ideals of her husband in upholding the sentence monotheism. Khadijah has given capital to her husband because Khadijah believes her husband will not use the treasure in a useless place.

IV. Conclusion
In the following, the authors tries to outline some of the conclusions from all the previous descriptions. 1. Khadijah always participated in the struggle of the Prophet, since before and after becoming the wife of the Prophet. And Khadijah always participated in the struggle with the Prophet and always helped him with her wealth. 2. Furthermore, in general there are three things that motivated Khadijah in the struggle of the Prophet, namely the personality of the Prophet, Khadijah's love for the Prophet and Khadija's belief in the truth of the teachings of Islam that were delivered by the Prophet. 3. Khadija's sacrifice in developing the greatest Islam is always faithfully accompanying and giving support and encouragement to the Messenger of Allah for the benefit of her husband in carrying out Islamic da'wah. Khadijah even gave all of her wealth as capital in the struggle of the Prophet to achieve the ideals of her husband in upholding the sentence monotheism.